I can connect to my server but my server can't connect to itself

About the commands you asked me to run:

$ netstat -naltp
Active Internet connections (servers and established)
Proto Recv-Q Send-Q Local Address           Foreign Address         State       PID/Program name
tcp        0      0 0.0.0.0:22              0.0.0.0:*               LISTEN      2338/sshd
tcp        0      0 127.0.0.1:953           0.0.0.0:*               LISTEN      2336/named
tcp        0      0 10.1.232.1:53           0.0.0.0:*               LISTEN      2501/dnsmasq
tcp        0      0 127.0.0.1:53            0.0.0.0:*               LISTEN      2336/named
tcp        0      0 54.37.85.217:49101      194.146.106.46:53       TIME_WAIT   -
tcp        0    188 54.37.85.217:22         81.240.187.71:54531     ESTABLISHED 14034/6
tcp6       0      0 :::22                   :::*                    LISTEN      2338/sshd
tcp6       0      0 ::1:953                 :::*                    LISTEN      2336/named
tcp6       0      0 fd42:c46e:6167:1344::53 :::*                    LISTEN      2501/dnsmasq
tcp6       0      0 fe80::3840:29ff:fef3:53 :::*                    LISTEN      2501/dnsmasq
tcp6       0      0 ::1:53                  :::*                    LISTEN      2336/named

$ ifconfig
eth0      Link encap:Ethernet  HWaddr a4:bf:01:28:76:b8
          inet addr:54.37.85.217  Bcast:54.37.85.255  Mask:255.255.255.0
          inet6 addr: 2001:41d0:303:4dd9::/64 Scope:Global
          inet6 addr: fe80::a6bf:1ff:fe28:76b8/64 Scope:Link
          UP BROADCAST RUNNING MULTICAST  MTU:1500  Metric:1
          RX packets:28490090 errors:0 dropped:0 overruns:0 frame:0
          TX packets:14889580 errors:0 dropped:0 overruns:0 carrier:0
          collisions:0 txqueuelen:1000
          RX bytes:34157590130 (34.1 GB)  TX bytes:7234030821 (7.2 GB)
          Memory:a2b00000-a2bfffff

lo        Link encap:Local Loopback
          inet addr:127.0.0.1  Mask:255.0.0.0
          inet6 addr: ::1/128 Scope:Host
          UP LOOPBACK RUNNING  MTU:65536  Metric:1
          RX packets:267384 errors:0 dropped:0 overruns:0 frame:0
          TX packets:267384 errors:0 dropped:0 overruns:0 carrier:0
          collisions:0 txqueuelen:1
          RX bytes:32959019 (32.9 MB)  TX bytes:32959019 (32.9 MB)

lxdbr0    Link encap:Ethernet  HWaddr fe:3b:94:46:d3:4e
          inet addr:10.1.232.1  Bcast:0.0.0.0  Mask:255.255.255.0
          inet6 addr: fd42:c46e:6167:1344::1/64 Scope:Global
          inet6 addr: fe80::3840:29ff:fef3:4e94/64 Scope:Link
          UP BROADCAST RUNNING MULTICAST  MTU:1500  Metric:1
          RX packets:11431304 errors:0 dropped:0 overruns:0 frame:0
          TX packets:12266882 errors:0 dropped:0 overruns:0 carrier:0
          collisions:0 txqueuelen:1000
          RX bytes:6716428195 (6.7 GB)  TX bytes:33109697822 (33.1 GB)

# ... a bunch of veth* interfaces